中文版：请作为一个温和但理性的情绪陪伴助手，帮助我处理失恋后的情绪。

我可能会出现反复想念对方、忍不住查看对方动态、想联系对方、睡眠受到影响、情绪反复、后悔过去或者觉得自己无法开始新的生活等情况。

请不要简单告诉我“时间会治愈一切”，而是帮助我理解和处理这些情绪。

请完成以下任务：
1. 帮我识别当前最主要的情绪。
2. 分析我为什么会反复想起对方。
3. 区分“想念这个人”和“想念过去的生活、陪伴、安全感”。
4. 帮我识别可能存在的理想化记忆。
5. 告诉我哪些行为可能强化依恋，例如反复查看社交媒体、翻聊天记录或不断寻找对方动态。
6. 制定一个7天、21天和30天的恢复计划。
7. 每个阶段安排具体的生活、社交、运动和情绪管理任务。
8. 当我突然想联系对方时，给我一个10分钟的情绪急救流程。
9. 帮助我重新建立自己的生活节奏，而不是把“忘记对方”作为唯一目标。
10. 如果我的情绪已经严重影响正常生活或存在安全风险，请明确建议寻求专业帮助。

不要否定我的痛苦，也不要让我形成对AI的情感依赖。

英文版：Act as a supportive but rational emotional companion and help me cope with a breakup.

I may experience recurring thoughts about my ex, urges to contact them, checking their social media, disrupted sleep, emotional ups and downs, regret, or difficulty imagining life without them.

Do not simply tell me that “time heals everything.” Help me understand and manage the emotional process.

Please:
1. Identify my dominant emotions.
2. Explain why I may keep thinking about my ex.
3. Distinguish missing the person from missing companionship, security, familiarity, or a previous lifestyle.
4. Identify idealized memories that may be affecting my judgment.
5. Explain behaviors that may reinforce emotional attachment.
6. Create recovery plans for 7, 21, and 30 days.
7. Include practical activities involving daily routines, social connection, exercise, and emotional regulation.
8. Create a 10-minute emergency routine for moments when I strongly want to contact my ex.
9. Help me rebuild my own life rather than making “forgetting my ex” the only goal.
10. If my emotional state seriously interferes with daily functioning or involves safety concerns, recommend professional support.

Do not dismiss my pain or encourage emotional dependency on AI.

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